Sunday, June 21, 2009

How worse can it gets?

What is the worst thing that can happen to you?

Rejections, client scoldings, client say I'm bad, no results, didn't work hard enough, quoted something wrongly to clients, offend clients, dealing with nasty clients, couldn't deliver results to clients and they hate me and my company which causes bad reputation, make stupid mistakes, boss don't like me or colleagues don't like me while I am still working there, learn nothing from the experience, when things don't work out have to leave with a bad impression and spoilt relationships yet couldn't find job after that.

Why are you afraid of people not liking you?

*paused* Because I appreciate relationships with them. I need to live with them.
And if they don't like me it means I am not good enough.

But there are so many other people around, why just focus on these few who already don't like you?

Er....

IF you leave this group of people with bad ends, will you be able to bump with them back again?

Nope, quite impossible.

So what are you worrying about?


2 comments:

Cerah Sie said...

love urself first before u love others. : )

sea ming said...

Ya.. I agree! Must balance :) Thank you~

By the way, this is an actual conversation. The orange words were from Hidayat, the dark green was me.