Sunday, December 27, 2009

He plays computer games, I talk

Different people has different ways of dealing with stress/feeling down
I know some guys don't like to talk about it
They play games, eat, sleep etc
I have to talk about it, or write about it

Why am I (or us Venus people) like that?
No explanations needed.
Just like tigers eat meat, cows eat grass. (quote from 许冠文 Michael Hui's talk show)
We are like that.

When we talk
Just listen and empathize
No need solutions, no need to explain too much what happened, why like that etc
Unless you see that we are like, asking for advice
Because... usually we know what we should do
Saying our feelings out is the way we de-stress
The most important is.. don't judge

Like now, I am just saying out with no particular reason and not to anyone in particular
Especially when he always listen when I talk :p

2 comments:

Cerah said...

U mean that little guy? hohoho : )

sea ming said...

Hahaha... the 'he' at the last sentence is that little guy who already understands what this post is talking about and is already practising it :p